So, being a teenage girl you go through guys like candy on Halloween...or so I've heard. Me personally, have been broken up with once and one well...we'll call it a mutual break. Those two were my longest relationships. One of my good friends went through a break up in the past day or so and was calling for advice and moral support, (she was doing the break up). The only thing that I could think to tell her was that if he made her happy then she should reconsider and she shouldn't do it just because she was being pressured by other friends due to the age difference between the two.
From the experience of being on the receiving end of in essence two break ups I can honestly say that it hurts and no matter how much time passes by when you hear his/her name your heart will still and you will remember your first date to the movies and you wont remember what you saw but you'll recall making a bet the you could win a prize out of the claw machine and naming it Leroy and being so proud. No. Those memories will fade and you'll eventually forget, but time doesn't heal, it just erodes away the pain.
That's not to say that the person that's doing the "breaking up" is a bad person in any sense. It means that they weren't getting what they needed out of the relationship and that they believed that it couldn't be provided. That's what I forced myself to believe so I wouldn't continue to hate my ex. I resented him for the longest time because I was still in love with him as he moved on so quickly that it was as if we weren't together for eight or so months, which is a long time in high school relationships.
But to my friend I told her that she needed to be happy with herself and love herself or how could she expect anyone else to love her? She ended her relationship and I was the one she called afterward. I love this girl dearly and she deserves the world, she just needs to realize that.
Some people come into our lives and quickly go. Some stay for a while, leave footprints on our hearts, and we are never, ever the same. ~Flavia Weedn,Forever
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